This is my first time posting and I'm hoping for some ideas on how to handle this situation, because I'm lost!
My best girlfriend is engaged and asked me to be her MOH, which I was happy to accept. She has set a date in about a year, and I was excited to help her in any way that she needed me. Problem is she called me up to tell me her and her fiance got married, but aren't telling anyone else. They are planning on going ahead with this whole big wedding thing next year. She wants me to still plan her a bridal shower, bachelorette party, the whole sha-bang. I was so shocked I didn't even know how to respond. Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable with this whole thing, or should I just go along with it?
TIA~