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nda_roxybabe
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Um, wtf?
So I just found out T's sister sent him the following text message:
"so is amanda super jealous or something? She hasnt said a word to me about being engaged? Did you see email pics of my amazing ring"
Um, ok...Can I just remind you that when T and I got engaged you said nothing other than whining that I didn't need another ring?
Maybe I'm overreacting but this really annoyed me.
"so is amanda super jealous or something? She hasnt said a word to me about being engaged? Did you see email pics of my amazing ring"
Um, ok...Can I just remind you that when T and I got engaged you said nothing other than whining that I didn't need another ring?
Maybe I'm overreacting but this really annoyed me.
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Re: Um, wtf?
[QUOTE]attenion hoor much?
Posted by shellydiane820[/QUOTE]
Very much. How could anyone have missed the picture what with the text, email, fb updates (like 5). Even a family member told me today it seems ridiculous.
[QUOTE]People like that drive me crazy. Maybe you should just overly indulge her and send her texts, cards and FB messages about how happy you are. <strong>That would annoy her.</strong>
Posted by jamiefour[/QUOTE]
Quite the oppisite. She would love it.
[QUOTE]Don't rush to congratulate her now, she'll know you saw the text---just leave her be. I cannot believe someone gets mad over not being congratulated. That's crap.
Posted by RachNRich[/QUOTE]
Rach, I have no plans of rushing to do so now, it would just give her what she wants. I'm passive like that. I'll wait until I see in her person just as I have planned on doing.
Yes, Salt..amaNDA=me
[QUOTE]Teresa- she is 24.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]
Hmm, her text just seemed juvenile (among other things) and I would have expected her to be much younger than that. :/ Maybe the phrasing in the text just read young.
<em>Disclaimer: Being a younger bride =/= being juvenile, immature, etc., obviously.</em>
Haven't you said that she wasn't exactly an awesome person before though?
Um, shes definitely not my favorite person. Our personalities do not go at. all.
Maybe T can propose to you at her wedding? With an AMAZING ring?
[QUOTE]I'm sorry; that's such a bummer. Maybe T can propose to you at her wedding? With an AMAZING ring? :)
Posted by TeresaLovesDave[/QUOTE]
Hahaha T did tell me he likes the ring I want more than hers. The funny thing is that I always have thought she would do that at my wedding someday. I am fully prepared for her to announce something huge (at this point a baby) at my wedding.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Um, wtf? : <strong>Hahaha T did tell me he likes the ring I want more than hers.</strong> The funny thing is that I always have thought she would do that at my wedding someday. I am fully prepared for her to announce something huge (at this point a baby) at my wedding.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]
Care to share a picture? It might help to get your mind off T's lame sister.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Um, wtf? : Care to share a picture? It might help to get your mind off T's lame sister.
Posted by TeresaLovesDave[/QUOTE]
Of the one I love? I've showed it before (its love).
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Hey, also, I listen to Vampire weekend and Matt and Kim every morning. I love them
Also, so glad that you're liking Vampire Weekend -- they have a cool, different sound. Just fun, "happy" music. And Matt & Kim too -- I'm glad you liked them both.
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
[QUOTE]Well, I suppose that's better than her asking you to be her BM. You should tell her you're knocked up and your due date is her wedding day. Then she'd never ask you for fear of you stealing her thunder, even more than you are by not gushing over her fuckingring.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]
Yes, what she said. :) ^^^
[QUOTE]Well, I suppose that's better than her asking you to be her BM. You should tell her you're knocked up and your due date is her wedding day. Then she'd never ask you for fear of you stealing her thunder, even more than you are by not gushing over her fuckingring.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]
Hahahahaha this would be amazing buuut the other sister just had a miscarriage, it would be too cruel.
Teresa- Its from a website called diamondideals. Oh yea, you're more than welcome to come to me for music next time. We clearly have similiar taste. Vampire weekend makes me so happy on my way to hell (work)
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
The sister that miscarried I love. Her mother in law emailed me today though and said shes worried that when we all go to SF to see her (sweet sister) in two weeks that the wedding hullabullo will be a bit much for her.
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
So okay, stick to the initial plan: get engaged at her wedding. In the middle of the vows, or the middle of their first dance -- just started screaming. That said, please take pictures and/or video.