Ok so my mom originally asked me for the guest list for the bridal shower that she's throwing with my sister (MOH) and best friend/bridesmaid. As far as I know she made the rsvp date august 1st and the shower is on the 8th. She's been hounding me since Monday to ask my friends if they're coming since they haven't rsvp'd yet.
I told her that I'm not really supposed to be involved and it's making me feel really uncomfortable that she wants me to check in with everyone to get their RSVPs before the date is even up.
So she just gives me attitude and says the place needs to know the number so she'll just tell them 20 since that's all thats RSVP'd so far. I'm like fine, but just really uncomfortable and this totally sucks because it's turned into a fight with her b/c she doesn't understand why i won't just call MY friends to see if they're coming. It's not like I asked for this shower! Not that I'm not grateful, but it's such a weird position she's putting me in, imo.
She was also like well I'll just wait until MOH gets home to take care of it because "i feel like MOH and BM were supposed to be doing this and I've already done more than I want to".....nice, right?! (For the record, I'm pretty sure her only duties assigned to her by MOH was to hire the place/catering and recieve the rsvps. (MOH has been away at sea for the past month doing research and comes back 8/2).
Am I totally wrong here? Should I just call or email my friends and ask them if they're coming at this point? (even if i'm not wrong)
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