We're making our own invitations (they're beautiful!), and I'm trying to decide what address to put on the RSVP postcards. I want the cards to come to my apartment across the state, and my mom wants them to come to her. I want the cards because I feel like that's one of the fun parts -- getting to see who's coming to the wedding! I think my mom wants them for the same reasons.
Since she's "hosting" the event and paying for everything, do I have to give in? She's okay with me having them, but I know that's not what she really wants. Do I have to wait to see *if* I have a daughter someday and enough money to throw her a wedding to enjoy these aspects of the wedding planning?
Furthermore, I feel like I'd be saving her a lot of work by receiving them because I can keep track of everything and make calls to people who don't respond.