Hi all! I've been on the boards for about a year and I don't believe I have ever posted on here! My FI's aunt has offered to host a couple's shower for us in the Spring. In his family this is basically just a big co-ed party with gifts held at his aunt and uncle's house. I am graduating my Master's program and having my bachelorette party on a Saturday in May (I work weekends and rarely have Saturdays off of work). It is okay for me to ask or suggest that the shower is held on the Friday night of that weekend? FI's aunt told me that she would like to host it in the late Spring, but that is all we've really talked about. My parents and friends (whom FI's aunt would be inviting to the shower anyway) will already be in town for my graduation, so it would be convenient for them and reduce the number of visits to Cincinnati. I don't want to word it in such a way where it sounds like I am demanding that it be held that Friday night since she has already so graciously offered to host. Any advice on wording or on what is "appropriate" etiquette-wise would be much appreciated!