So we and a couple we are very close with got engaged within a couple months from each other... Now that we've all starter officially planning, they're planning an April wedding, and I'd like mine to be in March of the same year, as both my parents and grandparents both got married March 12, so I'd like to keep with the March tradition. Is it rude for me to chose a wedding date a month before theirs? Ours will be a destination wedding as I'm from out of town, and this is non-negotiable. They have not decided on a wedding location, and are considering both local and destination locations... Will their wedding being a month after mine get in the way of our friends being able to attend? We have overlapping friends, but that wouldn't be the majority of the wedding party. Would my wedding steal their wedding's thunder? Just want to make sure I'm not doing something rude by having my wedding a month earlier!