So my friend is moving in with his girlfriend in a few months. Clearly she is included on his invite, however due to Fi's family planning things crazy in advance we are sending out STD's now. Do we include her on his even though they live in different states? Do I send her one even though I don't know her? Do I just send him one, addressed to just him, and then add her to the formal invite?
I don't want to be rude, I just am not sure how to do this.