I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny)

tlv204

Thanks lisa

And oot- It's that damn mirror more than the scale!

ootmother2

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[QUOTE]Thanks lisa :) And oot- It's that damn mirror more than the scale! :)
Posted by tlv204[/QUOTE]


I only will shop for clothes now in stores that have candle lit dressing rooms!

missy68

TLV, I was just now able to read the I Judge post. And I'm in tears, too.

I was with her, as well as J. He wore sunglasses so no one but me (and Maggie) saw his tears.  That's the way I wanted it - to be with her. Its the way it should be. Even now I'm in tears.


I'm sorry; I'm not helping................


I'm totally impressed with your weight loss efforts. I have no willpower in the wintertime. I put on about 15 pounds last winter - I called it hibernation. It did come off over the summer with cycling, thank God.

smokeybailey

tlv, I was in the BEST shape of my life from 31-34.  Now, at 37, I'm in a slump so I feel your pain.  You'll come out of it!

I don't know if this cheers you up, but here is whale I saw in cabo:

aMrsin09

I'm going to second smokey on this one.  I too was in the best shape of my life in my 30s but it was from 34-40.  Then I met H.  Damn him and the happy contented weight gain... ;-)

tlv204

That does give me hope Maybe I just have too many skinny friends. Also H eats like a dump truck and is still thin, so although I know it's not logical, that doesn't help either.

Nebb

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[QUOTE]Sorry to be the voice of reason here but eating like a pig for a long time and then being healthy for 2 months isn't going to undo all of that flab (wing dip once a week?!?! wow). And when you say eat like a "normal person", what's normal? because judging from past behaviors your definition might not exactly be correct. Also, what kind of work outs do you do? Sorry to burst your bubble, but walking at 3 on the treadmill for 10 minutes doesn't count as a workout honey.
Posted by daffodil2010[/QUOTE]
Way to bust in hours after the fact being a total judgemental asshole. Did she say thats all she does? No. She actually provided very little detail IN THIS THREAD, but has provided lots of other information in others, but since you have a lofty 6 posts under your belt, you would hardly know that. So how about you STFU.

polichik

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[QUOTE]Sorry to be the voice of reason here but eating like a pig for a long time and then being healthy for 2 months isn't going to undo all of that flab (wing dip once a week?!?! wow). And when you say eat like a "normal person", what's normal? because judging from past behaviors your definition might not exactly be correct. Also, what kind of work outs do you do? Sorry to burst your bubble, but walking at 3 on the treadmill for 10 minutes doesn't count as a workout honey.
Posted by daffodil2010[/QUOTE]

Who the F are you? If you want to give constructive advice, at least do it in a respectful manner. You must really hate yourself to be so hateful to somebody else.

polichik

Nebb, wanna go cuttabitch?

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]Sorry to be the voice of reason here but eating like a pig for a long time and then being healthy for 2 months isn't going to undo all of that flab (wing dip once a week?!?! wow). And when you say eat like a "normal person", what's normal? because judging from past behaviors your definition might not exactly be correct. Also, what kind of work outs do you do? Sorry to burst your bubble, but walking at 3 on the treadmill for 10 minutes doesn't count as a workout honey.
Posted by daffodil2010[/QUOTE]

I think you're confusing the voice of reason with the voice of douchiness. Chill the eff out, or please go away until you learn how to make a point without being a complete twatwaffle.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]Nebb, wanna go cuttabitch?
Posted by polichik[/QUOTE]

Can I play? This biatch is on my list, and I don't even have a list.

polichik

Yes, Beatles. I always want you on my team!

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]Yes, Beatles. I always want you on my team!
Posted by polichik[/QUOTE]

*cracks knuckles*

daffodil2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : Way to bust in hours after the fact being a total judgemental asshole. Did she say thats all she does? No. She actually provided very little detail IN THIS THREAD, but has provided lots of other information in others, but since you have a lofty 6 posts under your belt, you would hardly know that. So how about you STFU.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

<div>Only 6 posts but ya gotta start somewhere. Sorry I didn't find the thread right when it started. If these things have a shelf life, they probably shouldn't keep showing up. I just don't think fat whiny people need enabling like this. Someone has to give them the difficult straight truth or nothing is going to change and they're going to keep eating like crap and destroying their bodies. But hey if you want more of your healthcare dollars subsidizing that, keep up the good work. :)</div>

daffodil2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : Who the F are you? If you want to give constructive advice, at least do it in a respectful manner. You must really hate yourself to be so hateful to somebody else.
Posted by polichik[/QUOTE]

<div>I just hate fat people bitching and whining. You eat like crap for a long time, it's not gonna be easy to get back to a normal weight. Boo hoo. Congrats you're now doing what normal people do. You don't need to be coddled when it gets hard trying to eat normal. Not even eat well, but normal. I mean was I the only one who threw up a little in their mouth when she said she ate chicken wing dip once a week. Yeah it's damn good once in a while for a tailgate or something but good lord.</div>

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : Only 6 posts but ya gotta start somewhere. Sorry I didn't find the thread right when it started. If these things have a shelf life, they probably shouldn't keep showing up.<strong> I just don't think fat whiny people need enabling like this. Someone has to give them the difficult straight truth or nothing is going to change </strong>and they're going to keep eating like crap and destroying their bodies. But hey if you want more of your healthcare dollars subsidizing that, keep up the good work. :)
Posted by daffodil2010[/QUOTE]

That's funny, I was just thinking the same thing about bitchy know-it-alls who take things way out of context and reveal just how utterly ignorant they really are. It's an epidemic, and I refuse to support it any longer.

daffodil2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : Way to bust in hours after the fact being a total judgemental asshole. Did she say thats all she does? No. She actually provided very little detail IN THIS THREAD, but has provided lots of other information in others, but since you have a lofty 6 posts under your belt, you would hardly know that. So how about you STFU.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

<div>And hey for being hours after the fact, you were still here along with the Knot knife gang. ;)</div>

daffodil2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : That's funny, I was just thinking the same thing about bitchy know-it-alls who take things way out of context and reveal just how utterly ignorant they really are. It's an epidemic, and I refuse to support it any longer.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

<div>That's the spirit taco cat. BTW, just be glad you weren't here earlier or your sig would've knocked her fresh off the wagon. Nebb would've found her turning tricks outside of a Taco Bell for gorditas.</div>

beatlesgirl25

Well aren't you cute just chomping at the bit. Hey, you finally cracked into the double digit posts!

Come on, fess up. Who's the man behind the curtain, daffodil2010?

Nebb

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : I just hate fat people bitching and whining. You eat like crap for a long time, it's not gonna be easy to get back to a normal weight. Boo hoo. Congrats you're now doing what normal people do. You don't need to be coddled when it gets hard trying to eat normal. Not even eat well, but normal. I mean was I the only one who threw up a little in their mouth when she said she ate chicken wing dip once a week. Yeah it's damn good once in a while for a tailgate or something but good lord.
Posted by daffodil2010[/QUOTE]
Life isnt perfect, neither are people. It takes a truly horrible person to judge such a small action and say such disgusting things. You think her eating is enough to make you throw up in your mouth? Your personality and attitude makes me want to vomit. You are just a disgusting individual and your opinions will catch up to you. But if it makes you feel better about yourself to be so rude when someone was just asking for advice, good for you. That will catch up with you too.

beatlesgirl25

Juust in case:

[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : Only 6 posts but ya gotta start somewhere. Sorry I didn't find the thread right when it started. If these things have a shelf life, they probably shouldn't keep showing up. I just don't think fat whiny people need enabling like this. Someone has to give them the difficult straight truth or nothing is going to change and they're going to keep eating like crap and destroying their bodies. But hey if you want more of your healthcare dollars subsidizing that, keep up the good work. :)
Posted by daffodil2010[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE]And hey for being hours after the fact, you were still here along with the Knot knife gang. ;)[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE]That's the spirit taco cat. BTW, just be glad you weren't here earlier or your sig would've knocked her fresh off the wagon. Nebb would've found her turning tricks outside of a Taco Bell for gorditas.[/QUOTE]

thesuninherhead

I hope to God this girl is real (albeit twisted), and not an AE trolling. It pains me to think that I may be conversing in a positive manner with someone so digustingly lacking in concern for others' emotions. 

 

And presuming you are a real, non AE person, I don't recall tlv ever indicating that she's eaten terribly her whole life or that her exercise consists of 10 minutes a day on the treadmill. Looking at her pictures, I would be surprised if her BMI is above the healthy weight cut off of 25. If you were honestly looking to be a 'voice of reason', perhaps a good start would be basing that reasoning upon her descriptions of the issue rather than your presumptions? Wanting to be upfront to create change requires knowing the facts before throwing your perception of the situation on the table. Given that you made no effort whatsoever to do inform yourself as to tlv's situation, using the excuse of trying to motivate through insults is ridiculously transparent.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : Only 6 posts but ya gotta start somewhere. Sorry I didn't find the thread right when it started. If these things have a shelf life, they probably shouldn't keep showing up. I just don't think fat whiny people need enabling like this. Someone has to give them the difficult straight truth or nothing is going to change and they're going to keep eating like crap and destroying their bodies. But hey if you want more of your healthcare dollars subsidizing that, keep up the good work. :)
Posted by daffodil2010[/QUOTE]

So, you think it's your job to save her from herself by being a total asshole for no reason? That's cute.

Like Sun said, TLV is probably not even out of the average category on the BMI scale and that's obvious from her pictures. She does not need to be saved. She just needed some pointers and encouragement.

You just wanted to be a cvnt for no reason. Congratulations. Mission accomplished.

crfische

Dear mother fucking daffodil biitch,

Go eat a giant diick. I'm sure that will be good for your diet.

Fuuck off you gigantic asshole.

xoxo,
Fishy

danieliza1127

Daffodil2010 - there's a line here on this board and when you start ripping on people for their looks or weight, you've crossed it.  It's not funny, witty, or snarky and it's definitely not warranted or wanted on this board.  

BecW2be

I hope daffodil chokes on her carrot stick and her big bitchy attitude today, right after someone calls her ugly and disgusting.

TVL, do you have a trainer? You could investigate the GIS board and other web sites and see if you can shake your workouts up a bit. Mix in some strength training and yoga with cardio, and focus on stretching and really warming up those muscles before you work out. Keep up your good work, take in tons of water and you should start noticing change. Are there any sports you've been interested in but never had the time/nerve to try? See if you can find a spring league to get into. If these changes don't work, then I would see a doctor about possible thyroid or stress-related weight gain.

Pay no mind to useless fuckingfucks who offer no help and simply comment to make themselves feel less ugly. We all struggle with parts of our appearance. Those who struggle with god awful less than human character are far worse off than you. Daffodil is going to have a much harder time losing that gigantic chip on her shoulder than you ever will dropping a few pounds.

Hang in there! You are beautiful.

daffodil2010

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[QUOTE]Daffodil2010 - there's a line here on this board and when you start ripping on people for their looks or weight, you've crossed it.  It's not funny, witty, or snarky and it's definitely not warranted or wanted on this board.  
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

<div>Sorry, I didn't realize I was ripping her looks and weight. I thought I was ripping her abysmal eating habits and unrealistic expectations.  It seems like anywhere else on this site if someone asks a dumb question or is being a bridezilla with unrealistic expectations people put them in their place.  Guess some people need to develop a thicker skin if they can dish it but can't take it.</div>

missy68

daffodil2010, you're being a shiit. Period. You are talking about looks, not personality or acts which is what being a "bridezilla" is. So, STFU.

danieliza1127

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm having a fat day. Cheer me up please. (Very whiny) : Sorry, I didn't realize I was ripping her looks and weight. I thought I was ripping her abysmal eating habits and unrealistic expectations.  It seems like anywhere else on this site if someone asks a dumb question or is being a bridezilla with unrealistic expectations people put them in their place.  Guess some people need to develop a thicker skin if they can dish it but can't take it.
Posted by daffodil2010[/QUOTE]

You called her fat and whiny more than once.

mandysmear

This biitch is a total troll.  I just know it.  Following in that chick who told tide to have a miscarriage's shoes.