I've always wanted a fancy wedding and I know that white tie and black tie are both formal. I understand that white tie is more formal, but it could also be more expensive for my guests and/or harder for my guests to find things to wear. I'm having my wedding in Michigan, at the ballroom at City Flats Hotel. I'm wearing a ball gown and if I do white tie, do my bridesmaids have to wear long dresses? I'm a very classic and traditional person. I'm not positive this goes in etiquette, so if it doesn't, sorry