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What to call a cocktail-free cocktail hour

II'm putting together itineraries and I'm trying to figure out what to call a cocktail-free cocktail hour. Our reception is alcohol-free, but there wll be soda, tea, and appetizers during the morning (11:30-12:30) "cocktail" hour. It will be followed by a lunch reception. 

My MOH is thinking "Mix and Mingle hour".

What do you guys think?

Re: What to call a cocktail-free cocktail hour

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_call-cocktail-cocktail-hour?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c9860182-d5ec-4f9b-9ca6-23ada0c269b7Post:cc023734-fdbd-41e5-9f4b-2f70869ca311">Re: What to call a cocktail-free cocktail hour</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hour
    Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]

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  • Coffee Clatch......hmmmm, I don't know.  Will you and groom be there or will you be using that hour for pictures?  If you're there maybe call it a Meet and Greet?  Sounds cheesy but I can't think of anything.
  • I would just call it "Hors d'oeuvres" or "Appetizers."
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    [QUOTE]Hour
    Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]
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  • plato79plato79 member
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    edited May 2011
    I might call it a pre-dinner gathering. I like the idea of meet & greet if you'll be there. Good idea PP. You also could write something like, "please join us for appetizers..." or "we'll have a pre-dinner social hour..." or "we'll have a pre-dinner gathering..."  You get the idea. :)

    edit: i really like the mix & mingle idea too!
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  • I don't know that you have to call it anything. It will just be a period of time when guests mingle before they sit down for their meal. However, at the one dry (evening) reception I've been to, they still had cocktail hour with mocktails (different punch) and passed hors d'oeuvres. They did call it "cocktail hour."
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_call-cocktail-cocktail-hour?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c9860182-d5ec-4f9b-9ca6-23ada0c269b7Post:baadd7f1-b86c-497c-9902-5ed7776c54bc">Re: What to call a cocktail-free cocktail hour</a>:
    [QUOTE]I might call it a pre-dinner gathering. I like the idea of meet & greet if you'll be there. Good idea PP. You also could write something like, "please join us for appetizers..." or "we'll have a pre-dinner social hour..." or "we'll have a pre-dinner gathering..."  You get the idea. :) edit: i really like the mix & mingle idea too!
    Posted by plato79[/QUOTE]

    Unless I misinterpreted, I don't thnk there is a dinner reception? OP-is reception lunch or dinner?
  • edited May 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_call-cocktail-cocktail-hour?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c9860182-d5ec-4f9b-9ca6-23ada0c269b7Post:6ca836e3-9a16-4bb5-966d-42ebcab0cc11">Re: What to call a cocktail-free cocktail hour</a>:
    [QUOTE]I would just call it "Hors d'oeuvres" or "Appetizers."
    Posted by KentuckyKate[/QUOTE]

    Agreed, I would go with "hors d'oeuvres."

    ETA: Why do you have to call it anything?  Are you writing it on the invite/reception card?  If that's the purpose, you don't need to say "______ and lunch to follow," you can just say "lunch to follow" (or we are saying "celebration to follow" for our lunch, which includes a cocktail hour). 
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  • em01092em01092 member
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    You could call it a mocktail hour. 

    I had to explain to my grandmother what a cocktail hour was. She seriously thought it was free flowing booze and everyone getting smashed. I had to tell her its just a name and something for guests to do while the couple takes pictures (she says this is new, everyone used to just start eating dinner at the reception while waiting on the B&G, apparently?)

    She was extremely worried that there would not be any non-alcoholic beverages (she and about 20 guests are strict Southern Baptist and do not drink), so even the term "cocktail" hour can be somewhat misleading, at least to some people. I never had any intention of not providing mocktails or soda, water, etc. 
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  • mica178mica178 member
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    On the reception card, you'd just list the reception start time.  You don't need to break down what is being served when.

    If you're just giving an itinerary to wedding party and/or DJ/wedding coordinator, you can say "Reception starts at 11:30am, lunch served at 12:30pm."
  • I like Mocktail Hour or just  "hors d'oeuvres."  :)
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  • wyneywyney member
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    I can't tell from your OP, but I think "Appetizer" and "Hors d'oeuvres" suggest that more food is coming, so I'd avoid those terms if there was no food following them.


  • Why do you need to call it anything.

    We had a real cocktail hour but didn't fee the need to separate it from the reception.  We just said, 'reception to follow'.






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