I’m so troubled by the fact that I must do this but we have no other choice. Our budget has been cut in half. My father was going to help us pay for half of our wedding but due to some unforeseen medical issues he is now not financially able to assist us. We don’t have the monies to have the wedding we were intending on having. Along with the fact that my father will be undergoing treatments, he will be at the wedding but will not look his or feel his normal self. We have decided to have a small backyard wedding and small dinner reception instead of the large wedding. How do I disinvite guest that we have sent Save-The-Dates to? Please help.....