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LDYGTR13

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : your cousin drank more than once during her pregnancy, right?
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
Oh yeah -(and check my ETA!) - she didn't know she was KU - and got neg tests and things - but she's also a bit of a moron when it comes to her body (bet she doesn't know the placenta comes out after the baby *rimshot!*) but I wish she hadn't had any alcohol because the kid is all effed up now. But she claims she legit didn't know. (I dont exactly believe her)

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]This FFF makes my head hurt.  Enough with the baby talk. Except this: congratulations Steph! 
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]
You've been saying that a lot lately with these types of threads. You might want to go to the doctor to get that checked out.<div>
</div><div>Oh, wait....</div>

mica178

Oh, and FYI, I wasn't lurking and then coming up to say something witty.  I work Friday mornings, so I always show up to FFF late.  I don't reflame stuff that was mentioned five pages ago or by a gazillion posters because I don't see the point to repeat what others have said if I don't have a new angle.  Feel free to stay off E if that bugs you. 

FutureMrsFezz

Boozing one week, pregnant the next week.  BAM! 

My baby is doomed.

I guess I shouldn't have had that beer a few days ago either....

annakb8

Shiit, I have to go to lunch before the cafeteria closes. 

aragx6

I have no dog in this fight, but did read this yesterday: http://healthland.time.com/2012/01/18/alcohol-never-safe-for-developing-babies-during-pregnancy/

laladypoet

it's called reading. top to bottom, left to right. take tylenol for any headaches, midol for any cramps.

chelseamb11

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Spell-check is your friend.
Posted by sarabellam[/QUOTE]

She makes one spelling error/typo and you get on her about spell check?

Snippylynn

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Oh come ON. No one was flamming you for not being banned. Get off your own pedstal. And see folks? We get along. But I don't mind flaming her. That's how it SHOULD work around here. We're probably goign to have it out here in a second. And then in a few days? I'm assuming we'll be fine. I'll probably even comment on her FB sometiem soon. IT'S ALL OK.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]
It was stupid fuucking flame that actually really upset me. 

And I'm honestly not taking issue with the whole nice thing. I'm taking issue that it has to do with getting Lucy.

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]SPEAKING OF. Didn't FEZZ get extraordinarily WASTED at the DC G2G? And find out she was with child the next week?  It was a Kiki hunt, pure and simple. 
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

I have no doubt in my mind that it was a Kiki hunt to be honest.

But I see it no different than JessJo never being able to talk about her douchehusband again, or anyone else that's given reason to be railed on.

So...there's that.  (And for the record, I don't think I participated in any flaming of anyone drinking while pregnant, either knowingly or not, except I do think that maybe I said once to Mica or someone else that said it that advising someone over the internet they could potentially safely have one drink a week  while pregnant was a piss poor idea.  Or maybe I just thought that one.)

louisvillebride21

It UPSET you that we said you were going soft? Because of a dog? AFTER you said an extremely offensive comment that blanketed ALL moms here?

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]Oh, and FYI, I wasn't lurking and then coming up to say something witty.  I work Friday mornings, so I always show up to FFF late.  I don't reflame stuff that was mentioned five pages ago or by a gazillion posters because I don't see the point to repeat what others have said if I don't have a new angle.  Feel free to stay off E if that bugs you. 
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]

Did you just kick me off the board?  I'm asking because i'm not sure exactly to whom you're speaking.

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Did you just kick me off the board?  I'm asking because i'm not sure exactly to whom you're speaking.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]
I'm PRETTY SURE she did. I think Mica and Numbers are BFFs today. 

FutureMrsFezz

Fishface finished my last margarita for me at the G2G, actually.  I couldn't keep up with her and Rosebutt.

Stackeye210

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[QUOTE]It UPSET you that we said you were going soft? Because of a dog? AFTER you said an extremely offensive comment that blanketed ALL moms here?
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]



Yes snippy, exactly this!

emilyinchile

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[QUOTE]I have no dog in this fight, but did read this yesterday: <a href="http://healthland.time.com/2012/01/18/alcohol-never-safe-for-developing-babies-during-pregnancy/" rel="nofollow">http://healthland.time.com/2012/01/18/alcohol-never-safe-for-developing-babies-during-pregnancy/</a>
Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]

<div>This is a quote from that article. It may be one of the most ridiculous things I've ever read: "Women who are of childbearing age and who are contemplating or at risk of becoming pregnant should be encouraged to avoid drinking."</div><div>
</div><div>So basically from when you start having sex until you reach menopause, you should never touch alcohol because you might possibly be pregnant. Really? REALLY?</div>

laladypoet

*sits on J&K* she ain't goin nowhere

crfische

You know, no margarita left behind and all that jazz.

mica178

Look, no one is ever going to do a randomized controlled trial of specific amounts of alcohol consumption during pregnancy to figure out what amount is safe, so all we know is that if the mom doesn't drink at all, the baby won't have FAS, and if she drinks more than 4 drinks per day during the whole pregnancy, the baby very likely will.  Somewhere in between 0 alcohol and 4 drinks per day x 9 months is a happy medium.  We will never find that medium because no ethical person on this earth will run that study.

But... women drank while pregnant (a glass every so often) for most of western history, and somehow they still gave birth to normal people who were able to perpetuate society and mankind.  So think about that and let go of Kiki and Steph and whomever else has had the occasional drink while (knowingly or unknowingly) pregnant.

/moves away from virtual podium and shuts up

sparent2010

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[QUOTE]it's called reading. top to bottom, left to right. take tylenol for any headaches, midol for any cramps.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

I read from right to left which probably contributes to my erratic incoherent posting.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : This is a quote from that article. It may be one of the most ridiculous things I've ever read: "Women who are of childbearing age and who are contemplating or at risk of becoming pregnant should be encouraged to avoid drinking." So basically from when you start having sex until you reach menopause, you should never touch alcohol because you might possibly be pregnant. Really? REALLY?
Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]
DO NOT DRINK IF YOU ARE A WOMAN WHO IS BY HERSELF OR WITH SOMEBODY!

Rosie109

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[QUOTE]Fishface finished my last margarita for me at the G2G, actually.  I couldn't keep up with her and Rosebutt.
Posted by FutureMrsFezz[/QUOTE]

Straight to the face as we were walking out of the restaurant.

I had way too much to drink that day for sure. And I have told fezz this in the past, but I totally knew she was pregnant. I could just tell. Cheers to Kane! :)

Steph0871

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[QUOTE]Guys if you're still flaming foffing pregnancies than you obviously don't understand how the reproductive system works. (that was a joke, I found out today I have to make myself clear)
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

You don't know, because you don't play with your period.

Have we come full circle now? Can we please move on?

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]*sits on J&K* she ain't goin nowhere
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

I think you going somewhere is what we should REALLY be concerned about.

ahhhitsshannyn

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Did you just kick me off the board?  I'm asking because i'm not sure exactly to whom you're speaking.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

Okay, I guess I just got proved wrong that eeners never tell SBers to go home. Good God.

mica178

I'm not kicking off J.  I accept her flame.  I'm referring to AYG and a bunch of people who complained about me when they didn't participate in FFT.  If you want specifics, Celles sticks out in my head.

andy71781

Congrats Steph!!!!

Please keep up the flames I am being entertained.

Steph0871

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Spell-check is your friend.
Posted by sarabellam[/QUOTE]

someone finally caught it. I noticed after I posted, but didn't care enough to go back and change it.

louisvillebride21

No one is flaming Steph. I was flaming the hypocricy of the kiki hunt. As I said. I think you're a fucktard if you do flame them. 

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]But... women drank while pregnant (a glass every so often) for most of western history, and somehow they still gave birth to normal people who were able to perpetuate society and mankind.  So think about that and let go of Kiki and Steph and whomever else has had the occasional drink while (knowingly or unknowingly) pregnant. /moves away from virtual podium and shuts up
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]

see? this is why I don't pick up my dog's shiit. dogs have been crapping all over the land for a long time, and we're all alright.

unless it's on a sidewalk. then it's diick to leave it there.