I am having an issue with a good friend of mine- or ex-friend I guess I should say. She ended our friendship because I told her I probably wasn't going to attend the reception at her wedding. She planned a last-minute wedding on my birthday and told me that she would understand if I couldn't make it. I actually thought I would be asked to be in the bridal party since we have been very good friends for 10+ years. But she told me she was only having a maid of honor, and that if she did have a full bridal party, of course I would be in it. Come to find out, she was having bridesmaids and tried to conceal it from me until I found out on facebook, of course. I was hurt, but got over it. However I decided that I wasn't sure if I would attend the reception mainly because I didn't have a date and didn't feel comfortable spending my birthday alone at someone else's wedding, though I planned to attend the cermony to witness the nuptials. She went absolutely crazy and ended our friendship immediately. I didn't think it would be that upsetting to her since she already told me she would understand, and I wasn't that great of a friend I guess since she lied to me about having a bridal party. I feel bad that our friendship has ended, but I don't know what else I can say. I apologized for hurting her feelings (although she never apologized to me for hurting mine) but she can't get past it. I'm wondering where the anger is coming from and if there is more to this story... Any input would be appreciated.