My fiancé and I got engaged in May. We have set our date for August of 2011. This fall my step-sister got engaged. She has set her wedding date 2 months before mine. I feel like she has just pushed me aside and has had no regard for me. I got engaged before she did and I set my date before she did. Two months before my wedding is going to be my crunch time for planning. And then I’m going to have to be in her wedding with the additional cost for that. I feel like everyone’s attention is going to be on her, and not on me. On the other had I feel like it should be no big deal, that her wedding and my wedding are going to be totally different. They are two months apart. My maid of honor said to me, she is not stealing your thunder, your wedding is going to be your day, and no one can take that away from you. She said, go to her wedding see what she does and learn from her mistakes and have a better wedding. My mother is really upset with the fact the my step-sister has just step in front of me and taken all the attention away from me. It has been a hard adjustment for me when my mom get remarried. I was an only child until my mom get remarried, my step-father has 4 daughters. In the past couple of years my step-sisters and I have become every close. I feel if this was happening to one of my step-sisters they would just say, Hey, I’m not ok with this. But I feel like I can’t do that. I’m really struggling with what to do.