One of my co-worker's wedding is steadily apporaching (in a few weeks) and I know no one at the office got invited but today it was sprung on me that 'we' are all gonna contribute for a gift for him... I find this very odd since I have never given a gift to a wedding I wasnt invited to.
On the other hand, this makes me feel less like I dont HAVE to invite my co-workers to my wedding cause I and my FI have very large families and the numbers keep adding up...