I'm having a bit of problem with one of our guests. This girl was my h2b's (first) ex girlfriend. They split up amicably after 2 years together and then her mother and his uncle happened to meet up and ended up getting married so she's now part of the family. I feel it would be really weird having her at the ceremony, I don't want to walk in and see her standing there as a reminder that she was there first. I love my h2b to bits and I know he feels the same way about me but this is one thing we can't agree on. He thinks she should get a daytime invite as it wouldn't be right not to ask her. If her mum hadn't married into the family then I would never have met her and she'd be firmly in the past where she belongs. The annoying thing is that I actually like her and do feel a bit guilty about not wanting her there. I don't know what to do. Do I back down and rise above it, after all its me he's marrying and not her, she had her chance and blew it or do I fight him on this and demand that she only gets an evening invite. Please help, i'm suffering with PND just now and this is tipping me over the edge a bit. Thanks x