One of my BM and my MOH are throwing me a shower. My MOH is my sister and she mentioned to the BM when they were planning that there wasn't a lot that I necessarily needed, so they decided to do a travel/honeymoon theme. Their idea was for it to be things we could use for the honeymoon, like beach towels, beach bag, underwater disposable cameras, flip flops, etc. We're paying for a good chunk of the wedding ourselves so we have cut back a lot on all of the extras for ourselves, and that includes honeymoon accessories.
So my BM asked for a guest list, ordered the invites (super cute on paper that looks like a map to go along with the theme), and sent them out.
After people started getting them, she realized that the wording she used to convey that it was a travel/honeymoon theme made it seems like we were asking for cash.
(her sister, who was invited, is the one that pointed it out to her) It said "Let's help send them on their honeymoon in style! (St. Lucia & New York)". In her mind that meant cute new flip flops, but it didn't come across that way I guess.
So what do I do? I'm so thankful that they offered to throw me a shower but I don't want anyone invited to think it was meant to be rude. She did not intend for it to mean "money" towards the honeymoon, it's already paid for anyways. Would it be worse for me to call people and clarify? How in the world would I even say it?