Invite attire requirements ???

foralltime144

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Invite attire requirements ??? : And now I know you're fake.
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

Im fake ? .... how so ?? cause I am actually taking advice on here ?
I am FAARRRR from fake Ill tell you that much I LOATHE AND DESPISE FAKE PPL

LOL but ok whatever you say 


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misshart00

In Response to Re:Invite attire requirements ???:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Invite attire requirements ???:In Response to Re: Invite attire requirements ??? : Ah, but the real revenge would be the OPnbsp;will out 300 if you add tax and such for havingnbsp;some no shows.Posted by lyndausviI doubt there will be any NO SHOWS ... my guest list was 250 but i decided to op for a quality over quantity so I picked a location that could only host 100 I didnt want a speed dating wedding where i barely got to hang with ppl i have a plan b to send out a 2nd round of invites IF"""" ppl dont accept. I have ppl asking if their invited so I HIGHLY DOUBT I will have No shows . I am sure things happen but in this case I have ppl asking if they can come since its intimate Posted by foralltime144[/QUOTE]

Almost everyone has no shows. People get sick, a family member dies, or some people just plain forget. But you won't know they're no shows until the day of. Are you going to have a C list of people you can call on your wedding day to come and be seat fillers at what is apparently going to be the social event of the year?

Just have your wedding and enjoy it. Don't worry about what people are wearing or who didn't show up because it doesn't matter.

foralltime144

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Invite attire requirements ???: Almost everyone has no shows. People get sick, a family member dies, or some people just plain forget. But you won't know they're no shows until the day of. Are you going to have a C list of people you can call on your wedding day to come and be seat fillers at what is apparently going to be the social event of the year? Just have your wedding and enjoy it. Don't worry about what people are wearing or who didn't show up because it doesn't matter.
Posted by misshart00[/QUOTE]

Thank you I will just forget the whole
"formal attire invite " thing sounds like my inner event coordinator is coming out and i dont have anymore room for all the hats i wear lol !...

out of sight out of mind sounds like a plan enjoy the day and get carried away

wrigleyville

Do not B-list anyone. If you do, though, make sure you let them know they're part of the "quantity" group and not the "quality" group. Perhaps you can denote who they are with a separate dress code?

LiLe422

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Invite attire requirements ??? : Im fake ? .... how so ?? cause I am actually taking advice on here ?<strong> I am FAARRRR from fake Ill tell you that much I LOATHE AND DESPISE FAKE PPL</strong> LOL but ok whatever you say 
Posted by foralltime144[/QUOTE]

Yeah, thats what fake people say.  BTW, just as telling your guests what to wear is rude, so is a B list. 

In all seriousness, you should pick up an etiquette book.

peekaboo2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Invite attire requirements ??? : And now I know you're fake.
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

<div>Stage, I think she might actually be for real.  OP - you might want to remove your FI's full name from your TK profile.</div><div>
</div><div>That being said, OP, you got some fantastic advice.  Please use it.  And grab an etiquette book, as well as a grammar book.</div>

button6004

Man, if I found out that not only was I your second thought but that you also wanted me to shell out a bunch of cash for a "formal" gown, I'd probably go ahead and RSVP yes and not show up just to spite you.

I think you need to get a grip on reality.  Who the eff cares what your guests wear? Also, unless you are secretly a celebrity, your wedding isnt the Kim Kardashian-Kris Humphries craziness.  Get your priorities straight.

bridalmarch

Man...even $150 pp can't buy class. 

Or, in your case:

i seen this show on the tv and was like "damn i need that dude to plan my sh!t"  i want a klassy wedding on the rooftop and bitches better wear gowns or security won't let them up but im not a bridzilla LOLZ>

Viczaesar

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Invite attire requirements ??? : Im fake ? .... how so ?? cause I am actually taking advice on here ? I am FAARRRR from fake Ill tell you that much I LOATHE AND DESPISE FAKE PPL LOL but ok whatever you say 
Posted by foralltime144[/QUOTE]
You know what I loathe and despise?  When people write like whiny, illiterate tweens.

Laurmi

You can't tell people how to dress. End of story. Someone wore a white dress to my wedding, and I was absolutely shocked how she could be so clueless, given the fact that she's a very educated, smart 30-something woman, but it just makes them look bad, not you. Nothing is going to take away from you or your bridesmaids. There are so many other things to worry about. 

Good luck!

Laura 

foralltime144

wow all of you Brides or wanna be brides that are bashing seem a tad bit bitter. I have researched and only asked for a certain way to word it. CLEARLY, you don't get it and yes as if I have time to correct my grammar this is just a message board I am sure none of you guys use proper grammar for texting.
I wonder how your wedding was, or will be like

For those that offered good advice and direction I appreciate it

@LAURIMI Thank you

Its comical, hilarity, and quite entertaining to see how you expose yourselves and snicker around here like its high school. Here is a tip, next time you post on someones post say your peace and move on. Its as if you lurke on here out of spite I am sure some of you were bullied and or were not popular that is why you feel the need to talk sh-! ! ... well I did come across plenty of other brides that had a similar problem to mine on wording on invites... My boss Who owns a multi million company said he wouldnt get offended when he reads invites that notate formal attire since he has been to plenty of weddings and I also seen other brides online that have put it and nobody bashed them. Perhaps its the destination engagement shoot I had that leave you envious Who knows and who gives a rats ass. Frankly dont let the boujee fool you cause Trust me I will and can get vicious.

However although 150$ a person doesnt buy class, but I dont have to spend money or front cause I am not fake nor have etiquette I think you guys took it the  wrong way.

http://www.weddingbee.com/2012/10/29/guest-list-woes/

This link shows that this has been a SECRET topic of all brides and if you dont wanna come out and say it then so be it a fake person doesnt shell out there cards for everyone to see they only send good and happy times for their highlight reel.

get a fkn life those that talked sh-!

Dont be upset with me cause your life didnt turn out the way you wanted it to.

Grow the Fk up !

foralltime144

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[QUOTE]Man...even $150 pp can't buy class.  Or, in your case: i seen this show on the tv and was like "damn i need that dude to plan my sh!t"  i want a klassy wedding on the rooftop and bitches better wear gowns or security won't let them up but im not a bridzilla LOLZ />
Posted by bridalmarch[/QUOTE]

LOLZ ??? LAUGHING OUT LOUD !

WOW YOU MUST BE QUITE THE TROPHY WIFE

pbradley000

You go girl tell them clearly some people have to much time on there hands
@foralltime144

pbradley000

@stagemanger14 I love that you can talk big stuff your lucky you aren't in california
@Lile422 She simply asked for advice go get a life
@button6004 True no one wants to know they are a B-lister... But as far as wedding attire
let your family and friends come in whatever they want I loved to see how those pictures turn out

foralltime144

wow someone who is on the same page as me !!! clearly you understand how much a wedding cost...
my co worker said she was on the b list and she didnt care cause it was a great place in ranchos palos verdes and she had a great time.

its just annoying weddings bring out the worse and best in people but oh well !

foralltime144

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[QUOTE]You can't tell people how to dress. End of story. Someone wore a white dress to my wedding, and I was absolutely shocked how she could be so clueless, given the fact that she's a very educated, smart 30-something woman, but it just makes them look bad, not you. Nothing is going to take away from you or your bridesmaids. There are so many other things to worry about.  Good luck! Laura 
Posted by Laurmi[/QUOTE]


thank you and lovely picture btw ! <3