Okay everyone, how should I handle this situation without being rude??? We are having a formal wedding on New Years Eve and several of the people we are inviting, mostly from our workplace, have kids. How do we let certain people know that it is just an invite for the adults? I know alot is how you address the invite, but I'm afraid some of our guest won't read the invite right and undertand that we don't want 100 kids at our wedding, and they will bring their kids? Am I being rude for not wanting a ton of kids there? HELP!