So a guy that H used to work with at his old station had a second baby in September. We were pretty good friends with him and his wife before we both moved. They couldn't make our wedding but sent a gift. In September or October we mailed them a gift for the baby and their older son. We never heard anything about it, either a TY card or on FB. And I look at all the pictures of the baby to see if I can find the outfit we sent, but I've never seen it.
So my question is, would you ask them if they got it? I really don't care about getting the TY, I just will feel bad if they never got it and thought we didn't send anything.