Long story short. I am doing bridal shower ty's and I am good for all except one.
FI's aunt who has been in la la land with her meds and has done a lot of strange things from deleting us off FB when he bought me my new tattoo, to posting pics of his exes new child on her page...we thought we were past this and then a few days after the shower she posted a photo of herself, his mom, and his gma. Tagged him and said a whole paragraph of nasty things:
"The shower was beautiful but the moh was rude to us and did not introduce us to people. Grandma asked for a lotion and got told no, if this is any indication of what to expect at the wedding then we are worried" <---the jist of it.
His mother emailed me apologizng before I ever saw this. She told me in tears to uninvite her sister to the wedding. I am not going to but we are on watch now for her behvaior at the wedding. The whole lotion thing was BS as his gma asked ME and it was for his aunt for winning bingo and I said no problem. My gosh it was .50 and his mother adored my MOH who went out of her way to make everyone feel awesome. A lot of my friends introduced themslves to all of them.
She finally deleted the comment and the photo altogether.
On the words of wisdum card she also put "Don't forget the word divorce always exists"...
She got me some panties and made sure to tell me she picked those colors for my pale skin...a soap, and a stunning hair clip.
HOW do I write a thoughtful thank you that does not come off wrong in any way shape or form. I have tried everything with this woman but they say it's her "condition and memory and a slew of other things"