So Im going to try and make this as short as possible- I know you should never ask someone and then un ask them but Im afraid I have to break the rules...just dont know how.
I orginally asked my cousin to be in my wedding when we first got engaged because I felt like I was obligated to by my grandmother. Just recently we got into a huge argument because I got her a job with my company and n she was extremely ungreatful amongst other things. She then complained to my grandparents that they like my fiance better and was saying some not so nice things about my wedding and that the only thing I cared about was making my wedding better than hers, which isnt true. She then said some similiar things to my boss. She also lives in the same town as me and only calls me when she needs something from me. Not to mention a million other things about the way she lives, such as letting her high school age sisters come to her house and drink. Weve had to cut down our orginal wedding party anyways due to our dog having to have a $3,000 surgery.
How do I tell this person I love her because she is my family but do not approve of the way she lives or the things she has said an no longer think she should be apart of my wedding party??