My birthday was on Monday and my aunt and uncle were unable to attend the family dinner my mom had due to my uncle recently having a stroke. They sent me a card in the mail with cash in it. I don't feel right at all to accept the cash. They are so caught up in medical bills and I appreciate the card and the thought but I feel so wrong accepting it. They are short enough on money that they can't afford to buy my little cousin all of her school supplies this year. My cousin's birthday is this weekend, would it be totally wrong of me to take the cash and buy her a gift card for Walmart or Target so that she can get things for school? I am definitely sending them a thank you card, I just don't know if I should just keep the money or if it's ok to use it to help out with their money issues.
Edit: They asked me probably 2 weeks ago if I had school supplies I would not be using for college so that my little cousin could borrow them.
May 2013 Brides Siggy Challenge: Cake