I TOTALLY feel your pain with the bridesmaid. I have a friend that has been my best friend since middle school. I was a co-maid of honor in her wedding, and she is a bridesmaid in mine (I have a sister who is my MOH- she just had a brother). My wedding is March 27, and she is pregnant and due March 17. Guess we just have to let nature happen. Just remember that we can't control what goes on with that, and that she has to make the best decision for her own health and for the health of the baby.Let me know how it goes- I'll be sending prayers and vibes your way this weekend!