My boyfriend of nearly 5 years proposed at Thanksgiving and that night we picked a date and let family and friends (especially those that would be in the wedding) know about the date that we were looking into, October 6, 2012. Everyone seemed to be cool with the date. One of the bridesmaids mentioned that it was close to her and her boyfriend's anniversary and said it would be really cool to have anniversaries so close to each others.
I started researching venues because in our town they tend to book up really fast. Three of the places, I really liked and were in our price range are already booked for September, October, and Novemeber; 1 place is available but I still need to look at it to see if it will suit our needs, and one place is available the friday before the 6th-October 5th and one that would be my dream but might be out of my price and might not meet our needs is open October 20th.
I met with some of bridesmaid on Saturday and told them the issues that I'm having with finding places that are open or if they are open that don't meet our needs. I told them all how bad I was freaking out about it and how I didn't know how everything was going to work out.
I sent them all an email the next day, outlining how I thought wedding planning would go because they all have been asking me about dress shopping for me, for them, and planning showers. After the email, one of the bridesmaids calls and asked me if I could change our proposed wedding dates to an entirely different weekend because itwould mess with her and her boyfriend's 2nd year anniversary. She is now causing issues with other members of the wedding party. I don't know what to do. The place that the wedding is probably going to be (because of cost, location, size, etc) is the place that only has the 5th available.