I am prety sure I can answer my own question (I just need to grow a set and be honest) but I would like someone elses opinion. I USED to have a friend that I was close too and did a lot with. Fast forward a long story you probably don't want to hear. I hadn't talked to her in months until I got engaged. All of a sudden she is texting, calling and planning outtings. She has asked everyone but me who is in my wedding party. How do I nicely tell her she is not in it?