Hey Everyone,
I have a question in regards to a certain etiquette when requesting monetary gifts. I'm standing as a bridesmaid in an upcoming wedding and The Bride has requested monetary gifts. I do not have a problem with this preference; however, she is requesting $100.00 per person to attend the wedding. She has even gone so far as to not inviting certain people due to their gift giving reputation from future events.
I feel as though I'm currently in a tough position because her wedding is in one month and my financial situation is not the greatest. I have already spent close to $1000.00 for my involvement in the wedding party, recently purchased a new home in a new city with my fiance. I feel that at this time $200.00 in an envolope on her wedding day does not fit our budget.
IS IT WRONG TO GO AGAINST HER WISHES AND ONLY GIVE $100.00 TO THE BRIDE ON THE DAY OF?