I'm pretty lucky with my FMIL. She hates making decisions, so that gets a little frustrating, but FI keeps her in check. She's been through a very rough lung surgery and the wedding will be right when she's back to normal. We're struggling to pick a mother/son dance song and a gift for her. Any suggestions. The only song idea we have so far is "Carolina in My Mind" since FI, FMIL, FSIL, and I all went to UNC.