FI's BM and my best friend have both mentioned throwing us bachelor and bachelorette parties. We would really like to have a combined party, because the crowd will be much more fun for everyone that way.
My question is, do we have to invite SO's to a party that is just the WP, if it is co-ed? Best Man's FI is just truly awful (she makes every social situation tense and awkward for everyone because she is so rude to everyone). I would rather not have a combined party if she would be there.
(I know I have to suck it up for the RD and wedding. Can we do the bachelor/ette party without her?)