the wedding is in less than a month, our reply cards said to rsvp by 2/12 it's now 2/14 and I have to give our final count by saturday! My question is, I am wanting to email everyone who hasn't rsvp (all 105 out of our 240 invited guests) and ask if they are coming but I have no idea how to word it without sounding like bridezilla, any suggestions? Thank you!