Two sisters that offered to help during the wedding agreed to be ushers. One sister was dating a GM and they recently broke up about 2 months ago. I gave her some time, then sent an e-mail that I'm sorry for the break up and I hope we can stay in contact.
I have tried to call her to see how she was. But she is not taking anyone's phone calls. Her sister isn't answering either. I left them a voice message to see if they wanted to come over to my place for dinner, no answer.
So I'm going to give her more time and try again. My question is if she decided to break away from our circle of friends and not speak to us, when is it okay to ask someone else to be an usher? FYI, the wedding is in July.
Wedding date July 7, 2012