Okay so my Fiance's Mom (aka, my future mother in law) keeps on inviting people from her side...there is only 160 people to attend the dinner and she already invited 100!!!!! what about the bridal party or my family??? so what my fiance and I decided was to cut down people even if she doesn't want to and add on the RSVP card "We have reserved 5 seats on your name, please confirm" or something, I want to add A NUMBER on the RSVP so people won't be adding more or uninvited guests. I feel bad for doing this but I believe its the best for both of us because knowing his family... they'll invited the neighbors friend! Can someone please give me some etiquette on how to add an RSVP for a certain number...like how to put it in words without sounding rude.THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!!!