As H and I plan the renewal we're trying to just get ideas and things of what we KNOW we definitely want.
I want something more black tie and formal. I know, I know it's just a renewal but I'm more of a classy and elegant type of person. H...give him a beer and burger and he's good to go. :sigh: men.
I did talk him into the more formal, black tie ceremony and reception but the great music debate has come up. I know we still have time, but I like to have all my ducks in a row.
For the more formal receptions...Dj or live band? Or does it not matter really? If we would do a dj...can we tell him absolutely no "naughty" music even if requested? (I have older SUPER, SUPER, SUPER religious family who will be there. They're so prim and proper and non swearing they won't even say poo too loud. I love them to death and don't want them offended.)