Save the Date etiquette

Portuguesa928

When sending STD's, do you send one per household, or one for each person that would later receive a separate invitation (in the same household)?

Lori&Peter

I would address them the same as you plan on addressing your invites.

cherylanddan0706

I did magnets and did one per household, I figured no one wanted six magnets on their refrigerators. The Smith Family Or for roommates Cheryl Smith Dawn Smith Couples not married Same as above

Portuguesa928

Also, do you write "and Guest" for STD's or do you hold off for the invitation for that?

cherylanddan0706

I didn't do and guest

jaimelody

Will be doing the same as Cheryl - I'm doing magnets attached to a card. One per household and not writing and guest.

reneel828

I sent one to every invited guest. I wanted to do that and put the and guest on the STD so there was no confusion and everyone knew they were invited with a guest.

melissa82

I did one per household. To me it's silly to send three magnets when there's only one fridge. You know your family and friends best...if there are any etiquette sticklers, it doesn't hurt to send more, but in most cases I think it's unnecessary.If the guest was part of a couple, then both names were on there. I didn't do "& guest" on most single STDs, even though pretty much everyone is getting a guest. I did add it for some people who I thought would get riled up thinking they weren't getting a guest.

alliecarrie41

if married, one per couple.if single, one per invited guest.there was only 1 case i put two names bc they were both young (18 & 21 years old) and from the same family where i was already sending 3 sTDs!

newgate309

I'm doing one per household since I'm doing magnets. I figure no one wants more than one of those on their fridge!

Portuguesa928

Thanks ladies!  one more question...If you do one per household, would you do:Mr. and Mrs. Smith and FamilyorThe Smith Family

I <3 Seabass

I like Smith Family better.

lady_elle

I sort of regreted sending save-the-dates to people who I wasn't very close with. I told my sister when she sent hers, to only send them to those peole whom she "really" wanted to come!