To include grandparents or not to include them? They will be introduced at the reception.Pardon this lame question. My brain is fried. I'm torn because I am not close with my father's side of the family and his parents are not coming. I don't want to jip FI's grandparents and my grandpa, but I don't feel that it's appropriate to list people who aren't there (and that I've seen maybe 8 times in my life). I feel like it's all or nothing though. WWYD?Side note: we will be honoring my deceased grandmother and FI's grandfather in the program.