Little background, Dan's mother flips houses in 55 and over communities. She works with an retired priest, who was/is a very close friend of the family, and spends holidays with the families (lives down the street from them) We originally wanted him to do the ceremony, but he kindly said no. Today we get his response, he said no. His note:Don't be offended. I put a halt on weddings when I retired. I guess I had reached my quota. I wish you all the best.Love,HimI find this odd, anyone else?