**inlove**

ddelo23

why would you delete your posts after people wasted time writing back to you? that's pretty cunty if you ask me!

cvl105

Ditto...I genuinly answered you and was trying to tell you to stick it out, cause I felt the same way as you do when I first joined the knot. ps - cunty hahaha

jen629

see what I miss by having a job I like! damn it..lol..

kle0113

LOL!  You girls are great!  Love the words we choose!

kathymarie

Where? What? When? Fill me in!

cherylanddan0706

Oh Damn fill me in on the DD!!!! I need some knot excitement that doesn't involve Brad!

ddelo23

it's down in the is brad really brad post....

adam_dana

Agreed Jen! Effing jobs.

ddelo23

synopsis - she said she doesn't know why we waste our time with brad - that it's annoying and that it takes away from regular posts from REAL brides like her. I told her it doesn't, we stil all answer her....and chelsea did too....and other things too - and she deleted... we were being NICE!

velveena

I don't think anyone said anything rude to her!  Why DD??  People have such thin skin

ddelo23

no quite the opposite! we were actually saying that we wanted to make sure she (and other REAL brides) were getting help....oh well....see what happens when i'm nice?

cherylanddan0706

OMG Chelsea was mean, I have never seen that, I agree dana me likey! So weird, Ive seen her around and she didn't seem like the back tracking DD whore_

kathymarie

I also love how people complain about what is said here, like it is ruining their research for their wedding. Newsflash: there are other ways/sites/people to seek out to plan your wedding. If you dont like a particular site, get out. No one owns this board and no one is going to care if you dont like it... if anything, that only encites the action.

velveena

Um no there isn't Kathy.  NNJ Knot IS the end-all be-all authority of all things wedding related, and being accepted here should be your utmost priority.  Didn't you know?

kathymarie

No! I guess you should feel sorry for my husband!

inthelove03

lol my bad! i didn't know deleting was a bad thing to do. ok.. lets set the record straight before it gets too ugly. i deleted cuz frankly i was embarassed. you gals were really great in replying, but i think it looked like i was doing a "marcia, marcia, marcia" and i wasn't. as much as i tried to express that it wasn't really that big a deal.. i kept getting reasons why things were kinda wierd here. i was just stating an observation.. and when all this concern started pouring out, i felt embarassed and i wanted to just take back what i said. i'm sorry to you ladies, to everyone on the knot. lol, i'm not on here enough to know the rules of the game. again, i'm sorry sorry sorry sorry.. peace?

ddelo23

damn you people, now she's REALLY not gonna answer with all these foolish posts!

ddelo23

Yes, Peace.

ddelo23

And THANK YOU for having big girl panties on! most people wouldn't own up to it.

kathymarie

I am sure the reason she (and any DDers in general) wont answer will be more like, "I was busy and had things to do in the real world. I dont have time to sit on the computer all night and respond to immature comments. LOL LOL I feel bad for you if you take this so seriously, lol."

inthelove03

i know i don't know you guys either.. but my feelings were a bit hurt with all the name calling. all i did was delete a post.. and i find it hard to believe that something like that is deserving of some really ugly name calling.

cvl105

ok, I accept your apology...back to nice Chelsea. Just for future reference, deleting posts is a no-no here...except of course if it contains personal information or you say why you're going to delete before you do and it's for a legit reason. First time is a learning lesson....lots of people do it without realizing it's a no no )

velveena

inthelove, you know we will remember you now!  Ask away, lol.  And stick around for the NWR stuff too, even if you don't want to jump on the Bradwagon, it is a lot of fun here.  Happy planning

ddelo23

ditto what chealsea said - when someone deletes it's frowned upon since other people put time and effort into answering to that post. which is why it's cunty. In your case, it wasn't cunty now that we know you didn't realize. don't let it hurt your feelings, honestly - we're just a bunch of bytches welcome to the club.

ddelo23

and i promise, minus the brad stuff, you will enjoy many of our "regulars" posts if you particpate.

cherylanddan0706

Truce   Girls will have your back on helping out, Brad is just fun for us when its dead.

inthelove03

still not deserving of the ugly and offensive name calling.

kathymarie

Aw! I guessed wrong! Sorry! Good advice for on here: lurk a little to learn the ropes, so to speak, and then join in a lot.

ddelo23

who called you ugly?

mscutieri

How can I call her a lint licker if she apologizes and seems genuine about it?

cvl105

seriously, relax. "b*tch" was the only mean word used and I'm sure it's not the first time you've been called it. We've all been called it and used it in our lives. I'm sorry if it hurt your feelings, honestly. it was more to be funny, cause that's not normally "me", as you'll notice by the "omg chelsea, you were mean" posts after it.