Ok... I have been planning my wedding since January, on my own because my MOH is always way too busy. I Had a talk with her a couple of months ago and told her that is fine if she changed her mind, but i need her help and if she's not willing i understand, helping plan a wedidng is not an easy task. She pretended to care for a week and then back to ignoring me. She was engaged last year, fiance cheated on her so they broke up, so I kinda understood it must be hard for her to help me plan my wedding. Well she now forgave her fiance and just told me today she's getting married in December. She hasnt talk to me in a week, and we work together.... she came to my office asked me to go with her to see if she can exchange her gown( because she wants one like mine) which by the way bought with my mom because she didnt have time to come with. Last year she was going to have a reception, now she wants one and she was asking me about places, suggestions so I was giving her pointers and she said, well I'm looking for something more like your venue! (WTF!) So all she did all day was talk about her wedding and this and that. Im not rude, and i wish i could ignore her, but at the same time i know that if im there for you, once her wedding passes, she wont be there for me. I kinda joked about how other ppl ask me if she helps and she said, well im just gonna be there to hold your bouquet, that's what i do. "idont like planning" so i said "welll you should really hire a planner for your wedding and she said "oh no, that's what i have you for".... ugh..... Im so annoyed right now
i dont wanna be mean, but i dont wanna be stupid either.... what should i do?
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