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~dancer~

erikag23erikag23
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yo!  long time no talk.  what is up with your comment on not being a mg anymore?  i hope everything is ok!
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  • ddelo23ddelo23
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    edited December 2011
    I was thinkin' the same exact thing!
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    Hey I know right! Thanks things have gotten better! But yeah my husband wanted out and didn't really want to work on it so I am on my way to splitsville. I thought everyone knew though since I had heard someone was spreading the word before I had even told anyone due to fb stuff. I also got from a good source that he didn't even want to marry me anyways! So I guess I should have saw this coming!
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  • ddelo23ddelo23
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    edited December 2011
    :( sorry to hear that!! That's pretty damn shyttye of him!!
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  • dominoe611dominoe611 member
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    edited December 2011
    just wanted to say hi linnette!  i am sorry things did not work out :(  everything happens for a reason!
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  • erikag23erikag23
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    edited December 2011
    o.m.g. what a douchebag!  let me know if you ever need anything.btw, who are you referring to?  that is totally _fucked up for someone to do.
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  • njbrowneyedgrl74njbrowneyedgrl74 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry.  What a jerk!  You deserve so much better.  Here  anytime you need to vent or want to chat. Lisa Beth
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah sometimes things just dont work out I guess...hopefully the divorce will just go smoothly from here on out and I can just move on with my life.
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    oh and as for spreading the word they already think I am shitty friend/person so its not even worth it.
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  • erikag23erikag23
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    edited December 2011
    wow.  that was sensitive.
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  • justkris10justkris10
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    edited December 2011
    Holy shyt Mye, that was a bit harsh don't ya think? I don't even know the situation but airing your "dirty laundry" via TK??? Linette - I am sorry to hear about what happened. Although I will say I commend you for taking it with such stride; I cannot say I'd be as strong, good for you!
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yes I am referring to you! And I have heard from more than one person that you were the one that told them that I was getting a divorce after you sent me the first message which didn't show an ounce of concern of what I was going through...it was like you were nosing around for information. And not only did I hear that you were telling other knotties that I was getting a divorce but that you were telling others that you didn't think he wanted to get married in the first place. So yes I maybe a shitty friend because I didn't go to your wedding events and just responded no to your rsvp with no reason but I just felt that I wasn't ready to be going to all that stuff and plus it was like you never supported me or my marriage so whats the point of supporting someone that thought so little of me? It hurt and as a friend I expected more from you even with your fb messages.
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    thanks justkris....its been a few months now and I still see the counselor that my soon to be ex hubby started seeing before he officially called it quits....so it has helped a lot, without I don't think i would be at the place I am at now...although don't get me wrong I do have my moments where I crumble...and I am very good at hiding those kinds of feelings! lmao!
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  • MyeMye
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    edited December 2011
    i replied to you on many occasions to your posts on FB about random things that you were posting before hand, like about your chandelier or something. also, you were the one that posted on the knot one time a while ago, during like a vent/confession type of post how he got cold feet a few months before the wedding or something like that!!!!!!!!!! how is that my fault
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    doesn't mean you should be telling others that kind of info for me or putting your personal opinion along with it...even if your opinion in fact is the truth...doesn't mean I am not in freakin shambles about the whole thing....like what i wouldn't be hurting bc my husband just fucking bails with a I am not happy anymore so its over. No other explanation, no effort to work through it, thats it! So there you have it all the info you wanted when you messaged me on fb.
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  • MyeMye
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    edited December 2011
    i could just spend all day going back and forth, but its so pointless.... i really wish you the best, i hope you are very happy in the new life you are starting now
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  • tvlirenetvlirene member
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    edited December 2011
    Linette I'm so sorry you're going through this! Stay strong, sounds like you're on your way with a positive attitude.
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    of course its pointless because I should just fall off the face off the earth.
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  • starzbu23starzbu23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Linette try to keep your head up. I'm sure this must be very tough on you.
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  • attybride2attybride2 member
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    edited December 2011
    Linette, I am so sorry to hear this has happened.  I'm glad you are getting counseling and otherwise taking care of yourself.  Everything gets better with time. 
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    thanks star and atty! I appreciate it! Somebodies gotta go through it mind as well be me!
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  • cknud112cknud112 member
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry to hear that Linette.  That's pretty shitty_.  Hope you are doing okay.  One day at a time!
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  • jess_and_pauljess_and_paul
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    edited December 2011
    Awww... Linette, that's sucky! You're a strong woman though  :)And yes, things will get better!
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  • caketimecaketime
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    edited December 2011
    I am so sorry to hear that.  One foot in front of the other.
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  • alliecarrie41alliecarrie41 member
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    edited December 2011
    o.m.g.!!! we love you linette!
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    awww thanks allie! Give frankenstein a hug for me! man I love saying his name! alright I am out for the day....now its time for some retail therapy! My fave!
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  • Dancer2873Dancer2873 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh and thank you irene....I really appreciate it that, since I was a betch to you back in the day! I am sorry and thanks for your support!
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  • tvlirenetvlirene member
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    edited December 2011
    No worries :) I really wish happiness for you in your future!
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  • Laurms15Laurms15 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry that you are going through this....but enjoy your retail therapy :) sometimes that's even better then sitting in a chair having someone ask "...and how does that make you feel?"
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  • soontobemrsdavissoontobemrsdavis
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    edited December 2011
    sorry to hear about what is happening in your life but i am wishing you all the best linette!

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  • kpeteleykpeteley
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    edited December 2011
    Wish you the best- sorry you have to go through this. 
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