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Am I being a baby?

I got an invitation to a dinner hosted by the same company that invited me to Italy. 2 weeks ago when I got back from Italy, I asked mh if he would go with me and he said yes. Well, I reminded him yesterday (dinner is tonight) and I know he's overwhelmed with work and he told me he has too much to do to take a night off. I know he works really hard but I am so sick of going to things by myself or finding a last minute replacement for him. I really wanted him to meet and mingle with me, especially because he speaks Italian and it would be a nice, free night out for us.

Re: Am I being a baby?

  • edited December 2011
    I dont think so I think its normal to want the people closest to us when there important events going on ....I understand completely where he is coming from but  I think I would buck up and go even if it was for a few hours
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  • mbcdefgmbcdefg member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah, I'd be mad too. He could've told you sooner that he wanted to bail out (unless something suddenly came up).
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  • uppereastgirluppereastgirl member
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    edited December 2011
    It is understandable to be frustrated, but if he can't take a night off, he can't take a night off.  Also, if he's worried about work, he isn't going to enjoy himself or be good company.
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  • MyeMye
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry Irene :( It stinks, I hope you can talk him into it
  • tvlirenetvlirene member
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    edited December 2011
    I understand he's stressed and wants to get everything done (he's a perfectionist) but we still have to have a life. It's all in the timing...maybe I'll make him a nice lunch and ask again. LOL
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