NON- RSVPers- how long did you want to call?

jchristel

I only have 3 outstanding and accounting for 6 guests.  Two are out of state and I don't think they are coming, one is local and I think they just forgot to mail it.  The deadline was Wednesday 8/4, how long do I wait to call and what do I say??  I'd ask my Dad to do it but he's away on vacation.

goaliegirl

I gave them about a week then I had my mom or MIL call, or if they were our friends we called.   We had to call about 10 people I think.

felicia220

I waited a couple of days. (Just in case some mailed it on the RSVP date, which some did)  But I wouldn't wait more than a week to call.  

demarcosjd

We waited about a week and then depending on the relation to the person either my mom called or FMIL.

Heather822

I am so impatient! I called or Emailed the day after the RSVP *deadline*, and I am glad I did, because as you can see from the ticker, people STILL have not gotten message that I need this info ASAP!

jchristel

Maybe I'll call today.  I just noticed my typo- I meant wait to call, not want.  duh

akmackay

I waited a little over a week b/c we had so many outstanding. Many of them came in between that time, others forgot (we had MOB or MOG call depending on relationship, we bugged our friends for them via email, text, FB, calling). However, I'm still waiting on some RSVPs...

jaimelody

We had 50ish outstanding. I called them all if it was my family or friends and DH called his.  I waited about 2 weeks after the RSVP date and 3 weeks before the wedding.

jchristel

Thanks!  I want to get the tables done and get the cards to Michele Clark, so I don't want to wait any longer.  I'm going to try to pawn it off on my dad (it's all his cousins) but he's on vacation.  I'll hit him up when he gets back on Thursday.