Hopping up on my political soapbox for a moment.
Do you know exactly what Amendment One will do if it passes? Yes, it will ban gay marriage. But it will also ban all domestic partnerships/civil unions including those between a man and a woman.
If it does not pass, gay marriage is still illegal in the state of North Carolina (there's a law against it). If it does pass, thousands (maybe hundreds of thousands) of North Carolinians will lose health insurance coverage- including some children.
Please read up on this Amendment before voting May 8th.