Sigh..

NcsuPsych

So we just got our 2nd RSVP in the mail *Yay*.
Its from a friend, but she's added a guest on there (to my knowledge she wasn't dating anyone otherwise I'd have given her a guest) and she knows other guest that'll be there.

I kind of feel like I need to call and ask her who it is, but Im not sure how to approach it. Do I just say "I saw you added a guest, who are you bringing?"

Also. . heres another question :
Our neighbors are SUPER awesome ! Whenever we talk, we end up talking for hours and its such fun. They even got us a Christmas present that came off of our registry (Cute coffee cups) from C&B.  FI and I want to invite them, but we haven't known them that long and don't want to come off as strange.

With that said, we're also having RD and a cookout after the wedding here at our house (For those who are staying an extra night in town). Should we just invite them to that?  Or go ahead and give them an Invite to attend all festive's?

I apologize if this is confusing. . my brain is flustered from other events this morning lol

Jessica82799

As for your friend - if you are OK with her bringing the date, I would just ask for the name next time you talk to her.

And the neighbors - if there is room on the guest list I would invite them. It's a nice gesture if you guys get along really well. I don't think they would find it strange at all and if they do, hopefully they will do the nice thing and lie and say they have a prior commitment lol.

Hope this helps!

meredithl618

Yeah, if you are okay with the numbers and her bringing another person, then just casually ask. Otherwise you need to tell her that you haven't gotten enough responses yet to know if there's going to be enough room for her date.  Hopefully she'd understand.

As for your neighbors, I think you should invite them.  I am of the belief that you should invite people to your wedding who have been important to you as well as those who may be in the future.  If you invite them to the Rehearsal Dinner, you should definitely invite them to the wedding. I think it would be weird to only be invited to the RD and not wedding. 

jrsturde

If you know you'll have space for your friend to bring a date then let her bring a date.

I think you should invite your neighbors if you really like them.  I don't see why they would find it really weird.

sundrop24

I agree with PP. Invite the neighbors, they have already influenced you and FI's life.
As for friend, I would casually ask for the name for planning purposes.  Hopefully you will be ok with the numbers and it won't be a big deal that she is bringing a date.  However I think it would have been nice of her to ask rather than write in her own number... but a lot of people probably don't see it as us brides do.

NcsuPsych

Thank you for the advice!
This is why you ladies are awesome!