How to word this invite?

KellyandEddie0808

  So I'm am currently addressing my invites and I have a dilemma.  FI's cousin recently got remarried.  Me, FI, FI's sis and husband all know because we saw pics on facebook.  We asked her about it recently and she told us the truth.  She told the rest of the family that the pics were a joke to piss off her ex husband.  I don't believe she changed her last name to his and we are also inviting her 2 daughters (11 and 14).  How am I to address the invite??  I was thinking of doing it like this:   Danielle Her Last Name and Roger His Last Name and sending a seperate invite to the daughters.  HELP!!

melissa82

What does the back story have to do with addressing the envelope? She's just a married woman who hasn't changed her name. (Though I would ask her how she prefers to be addressed if you're not sure.)

http://www.emilypost.com/everyday/forms_of_address.htm

Then list the children on the inner envelope.

reese511

i agree w/ melissa.  just ask her.  then put the kids names inside.

Lolyalyssa

You could say:

"Ms. Fiance's Cousin's Name", & Guest & Family

or

Ms. Fiance's Cousin Name & Family

Heather822

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_word-this-invite?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:4e4f8b92-be6b-4dbb-a8fb-11cba3feef05Post:820a7ad3-8476-4f35-b634-aa83be12c6f0">Re: How to word this invite?</a>:
[QUOTE]You could say: "Ms. Fiance's Cousin's Name", & Guest & Family or Ms. Fiance's Cousin Name & Family
Posted by Lolyalyssa[/QUOTE]

<font color="#008080">I like this idea, especially if you didn't have inner envelopes.</font>

raangoli

I was about to ask how to address the invite if you dont have inner envelopes (i.e. we are doing the pocketfolds, so we won't have an inner envelope.)

Thanks for the tip, Heather!