STD Etiquette

eleven29

We're trying to create our list for save the dates and it's turning out to be more difficult than we imagined.  We have some cousins who are adults but still live at home with their parents.  Some even have significant others who we will be inviting as well.  Do we just send one general STD to the household, or do the adult cousins get their own?  If they do get their own, would we just address one to "The Smith Family" or "Mr. & Mrs. John Smith" and the other to "Joe Smith"?  Ahhh so complicated!

MissButters

I had the same situation. So, for households that had adult kids living at home, I addressed the STD to The Smith Family.  However, the people over 18 will all get separate invitations (I saw no reason to mail separate STDs to them).  I didn't even worry about significance other at that point unless they were an engaged couple, in which case I addressed it as:
Ms. Jane Doe
Mr. John Smith

npasquale16

I did the same as PP

ksen820

I sent the date to the household and did 2 lines for the name:

Mr. Uncle and Mrs. Aunt
Mr. Cousin
Address

Will probably send separate invites to make it less confusing.

eleven29

Thanks!  That totally makes sense, just wanted to check

jrgoogrl

I'm doing the same as well!