... who's paying for the wedding?
Frankly, I don't think my second cousins or FI's friends from college need to know who's footing the bill.
We didn't word our invites "properly" to reflect who's really paying (of course, that's not the only thing not proper about our invites....), because the whole notion bothers me -- the expectation that the verbiage should broadcast what I consider private info to all our family and friends.
Am I alone?