help girls!!! I am in a long distance relationship and by the end of 2012 he will be coming to America for good. if things go as planned we will have a civil wedding when he gets here and a big church weeding in about 2 years when we have the money for it. The civil ceremony is going just to be my immediate family. Is it ok if I have a shower even though I will not be having a reception for a long time??please help me I don't no what to do