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~*~NCSUPsych~*~

Congrats on taking over as mod!

I sent one email to Knot Annie about your interest being mod months & months ago, & I'd like to apologize with not following up on that for so long.

Long story short: There have been some major changes in my life. In the long run, they're all for the better, but I ended up getting disconnected from much of my "online life" to address issues in my day-to-day life (deaths of family members, moving, work, etc.).

This board is priceless and deserves an active member to moderate it. I have no doubt you'll find it as rewarding as I did. I've been on TheKnot since 2005 (before there were even non-paid mods), & know the value of this site to new brides-to-be. After the wedding, I stayed on as mod because I felt a need to "pay it forward" as a thank you to all the friends I made & all the honest & helpful advice I found here. I know you'll keep paying it forward for as long as you can too :) Though I still love all the wedding talk, I've been blessed with other things & people in my life that take priority now. Ten months or ten years from now, you'll be there too.

But until then, here's my advice from one mod to another: keep doing the awesome job you're already doing. Be tolerant of the trolls (as long as they abide by the T&C). I know that sounds strange, but every family has a black sheep or two. You may not always agree with them, but sometimes they're the voice (albeit, harsh voice) of reality, & they help show the solidarity of this fantastic little group when the girls ban together in support against whatever controversy du jour happens to be. Oh, & show no mercy to the vendor scum! Tongue out

Re: ~*~NCSUPsych~*~

  • NcsuPsychNcsuPsych member
    2500 Comments Fourth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    Laud!

    Hey! I hope you've been doing well! I meant to respond back to this the other day, but have had a family emergency of my own and have been trying to get things in order.  My grandfather just passed away, so our house has been a little scattered.

    I can def. understand how life can get hectic and crazy, ultimately consuming. Online life always comes after real life, but TK provides a great escape for both wedding related and life related topics.

    I also agree, this board is amazing. I know while during my planning stages, it felt like a true community and everyone was pretty close to each other. I've made two awesome IRL friends from here and am so thankful for them!

    Thank you for the great advice! If you can think of anything else, I'll truly appreciate it. Black sheep keep things interesting in my opinion and most of the time have great advice, just a different way of saying it.

    Again, I hope you're doing good :o)

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  • edited December 2011
    congrats!!!  Some of my closest friends were made on this board!! ;)  Now we're all married and planning/having babies at the same time.  It's wonderful!! <3


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