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shower invitees vs wedding invitees

I am making the list for my shower, do all the people that get invited to the shower HAVE TO be invited to the wedding?

At least, since we can afford inviting everyone to the wedding, I would like to invite everyone to the shower, thanks ladies :-)

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    edited December 2011
    absolutely....if you invite them to the shower, they MUST be invited to the wedding! Why would you invite someone to the shower but not to the wedding?!  Just for the free gifts?!
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    uppereastgirluppereastgirl member
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    edited December 2011
    Yes, absolutely must be invited to the wedding if they are invited to the shower (or the engagement party, for that matter).

    And even if that wasn't a huge no-no, who would want to go to a shower when they aren't even invited to the wedding?  Showers are miserable!  

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    edited December 2011
    Yes, definitely!!!!!!
    Otherwise you just look gift grabby.
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    carlaspeedcarlaspeed member
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    mbcdefgmbcdefg member
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    edited December 2011
    Everyone who is invited to the shower must be invited to the wedding.

    However, not everyone invited to the wedding must be invited to the shower. You cam keep it to the women that you're fairly close with.
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