Shower question

jrgoogrl · November 2010

Hi ladies!

My shower is in two weeks and I was wondering if any of you got small "thank you" gifts for you MOH and BM's? My MOH has been fabulous lately and want to get her something, but I don't know if it's something I should do at the bridal shower or after.

TIA!

altimat873 · November 2010

Hmmm as a nice gesture a gift is always a nice thank you but of course never necessary. I think it might be really nice to just do a nice big gift and make it personal and special for the dinner rehearsal when you do bridal party gifts.

uppereastgirl · November 2010

I sent my bridal party flowers after the shower. I gave them their "thank you for being in my bridal party" gifts at my bachelorette party, which was much closer to the wedding.

kwilkinson14 · November 2010

I think gifts are nice as a thank you but not necessary. I would think something like a nice bottle of wine, flowers, starbucks gift card, would be more than appropriate. I would wait until the RD or bachelorette party to give them their 'thank you' gifts.

felicia220 · November 2010

It was a little different for me, because my mom was my MOH, but I wrote her a thank you card and then gave her a big gift at the rehearsal dinner. I thought it was easier to do it that way, plus I would rather give one big gift than a few small gifts.